The Mother Load: The MILF AMA Panel

MODERATER: Casey Carter
STARRING: Phoenix Marie, Sara Jay & More TBA

Today’s hottest MILFs are taking the stage for an EXXXOTICA-exclusive AMA panel. Meet the iconic women who set the standard and became legends, helping define the mature woman fantasy and making the role unforgettable. Now, these powerhouse performers are stepping into the spotlight to own the conversation, ready to shamelessly reveal what it takes to embody one of adult entertainment’s most irresistible fantasies. Bring your burning questions and expect bold confessions, hilarious stories, spicy insights, and plenty of moments that will leave you wondering: Is it the character… or is she just that damn hot?

It’s time for MILF & cookies…and these ladies are leaving NO CRUMBS!

For the full event schedule, see the EXXXOTICA schedule

MODERATER: Casey Carter
STARRING: Phoenix Marie, Sara Jay & More TBA

Stage speakers

Casey Carter

Casey Carter is an award-winning edutainer, erotica author, and host of Casey@Night. Known for her blend of insight, confidence, and engaging delivery, she creates spaces where curiosity meets clarity. Casey specializes in pleasure-based education, helping audiences expand the way they think about connection, creativity, and play. Her work invites participants to challenge assumptions, explore safely, and embrace a more intentional, empowered approach to their experiences.

Phoenix Marie

Hall of Famer Phoenix Marie is saving marriages one scene at a time. The All-American MILF can get down and dirty, then walk into your house and have Mom asking when she’s coming back for the holidays.

Phoenix is a rare unicorn in the adult industry: filthy, but completely impossible not to adore. She’s fun, crazy in the best way, and gets along with everyone from the assistant to the CEO. One minute she’s deep in extreme action; the next, she’s joking and has the whole set laughing.

She’s a gorgeous, busty MILF who genuinely loves sex and performs with more enthusiasm and filth than anyone else in the biz. She’s elegant enough for a black-tie gala and filthy enough to ruin you for other women.

Sara Jay

Sara Jay didn’t just enter the adult industry; she came to make an impact. The Cincinnati native studied psychology at the University of Cincinnati, paying her way through college as a dancer before trading Ohio for Las Vegas and launching her adult career in 2001. Known for her unforgettable performances and fearless presence, Sara is an AVN Hall of Fame inductee. More than 25 years later, this multi-award-winning performer, producer, entrepreneur, and industry icon is still breaking barriers, turning heads, inspiring performers, and proving that staying power can be seriously sexy.