EXXXOTICA Seminar Series

Make Me Melt: Intro to Wax Play

Hosted by Sir Daniel

 

Finding ways to keep things spicy is essential—and few sensations are as visually stunning and erotically charged as wax play. This beginner-friendly class offers a safe and exciting introduction to the art of temperature play, blending sensuality, creativity, and trust.

Join us to explore different types of candles, learn safety techniques, and discover how to use wax to heighten connection and desire. Whether you’re brand new to kink or looking to add a new spark to your scenes, you’ll walk away ready to turn up the heat—literally.

 

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EXXXOTICA Seminar Series sponsored by Pro13.

 

Meet Sir Daniel, CEO of Tender Strokes Toys

Sir Daniel Harrison is the Head of House of Tender Strokes Toys and CEO of Tender Strokes Toys, LLC and Tender Strokes Toys Entertainment. A respected figure in the Leather and Kink communities for over 25 years, He is deeply active in His local Maryland scene and beyond. As the producer of the North East Conference of Kink (N.E.C.K.) and Fetish Ball, Sir Daniel is dedicated to education, inclusion, and community growth.

Believing in service through both leadership and volunteerism, He strives to bridge gaps between diverse lifestyle communities and create spaces grounded in safety, respect, and consensual exploration. His extensive kink skill set and depth of knowledge have taken Him around the world, offering newcomers and experienced kinksters alike the opportunity to learn, play, and connect. Guided by the wisdom of esteemed Elders within the Leather community, Sir Daniel continues to honor their legacy through mentorship, education, and example.

Over the years, He has served in numerous roles—including Dungeon Monitor at the Baltimore Playhouse and staff for various national events—and remains devoted to fostering safe, sane, and consensual kink wherever He goes. A true LeatherMan, Sir Daniel embodies integrity, passion, and purpose in all He does.


Slave Sunflower has been a proud member of the Leather community for nine years—three spent quietly observing from the shadows and six spent embracing public service, education, and visibility. She identifies as a slave, masochist, middle, babygirl, puppy, demo bottom, and now, presenter. Her greatest joy lies in service—whether through the Leather world or the vanilla one—always striving to “make someone’s day and life easier.”

slave sunflower has presented, moderated, and volunteered for numerous national conferences, including FLAME, Thrive, SELF, Beyond Leather, MsC Worldwide, and the North East Conference of Kink. She currently serves on multiple committees with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), sits on the Board of Directors for N.E.C.K., acts as Director of Diversity for Beyond Leather Conference, and serves as Volunteer Assistant for Southeast LeatherFest (SELF).

Though small in stature and soft-spoken, her passion for the Leather community and her commitment to service speak volumes. Ever evolving, ever learning, slave sunflower continues to embody humility, heart, and dedication in all she does.

Dates and locations

  • Washington, DC
    Dec 5–7, 2025

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