The Dungeon - All Access

Soft Power: Femme Authority and the Emotional Labor of Control

LOCATED IN THE DUNGEON ALL-ACCESS AREA

 

Hosted by Alex (Pain Puppy)

 

In this workshop, Dominatrix and educator Alex (Pain Puppy) explores the distinct power of femme authority—where care and cruelty, sweetness and steel, coexist with intention.

Drawing from over a decade in the kink community as both a lifestyle switch and professional Domme, Alex invites participants to reconsider what it truly means to hold power. This isn’t about barking orders or playing a part—it’s about presence, precision, and the deep emotional labor that often goes unseen: reading a room, managing a scene, and creating containment that’s both sexy and safe.

Whether you’re a femme Domme, curious switch, devoted sub, or simply intrigued by the softer edges of control, this workshop will explore how empathy, elegance, and emotional literacy can serve as powerful tools of dominance.

Expect a mix of storytelling, Q&A, and embodied discussion. No experience necessary—just an open mind and a curious heart.

 

 

Curated by TEMPLE

 

For the full Dungeon All-Access schedule, click here

 

The Dungeon Experience, sponsored by Bad Dragon.

Meet Pain Puppy

Alex (Pain Puppy) is a Professional and Lifestyle Dominatrix, Shibari Artist, and educator specializing in Consent and Comportment. With over a decade immersed in the BDSM community, her work bridges the intimate realms of power exchange, somatic experience, and philosophical inquiry. She holds an MFA, with her thesis, Animalization, exploring the intersection of pain, shame, and applied ethics, particularly how pleasure and suffering are negotiated in consensual dynamics. Alex has written for platforms like Sweet FemDom, where she combined her screenwriting skills with authentic kink narratives that center emotional realism and erotic integrity. In addition to her work in kink and media, she teaches at the collegiate level, bringing her nuanced understanding of gender, power, and embodiment into the classroom. Whether guiding students through complex texts or leading workshops on dominance and submission, Alex is committed to creating spaces where curiosity, consent, and transformation thrive.

Dates and locations

  • Miami, FL
    Jun 27–29, 2025

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